Thursday, July 15, 2010

WHAT YOU SAY IS WHAT I WANT TO HEAR



 Hmmm.. Who doesn’t want to be inlove? And who doesn’t want to hear sweet words from their boyfriends?
    
     Most ladies I know, and I for one, want to be in that same old feeling of being loved by someone in the opposite sex. It’s even in our nature to easily feel a tingling feeling simply by just being told that we look good in that dress we’re wearing for that particular date. I have heard a lot from my friends and from my own experience about these cliché lines from our boyfriends. And yes, even if they are cliché, we still have to admit that we still melt when we hear those words from them, right? We wanna hear them say like, “You’re beautiful.” “You look good with green contact lenses.” Even the simple, “I miss you.” “I love the sweet fragrance you’re wearing today.” “You look really good with your sneakers on.”
    
    Being in a relationship, you need to spice it up everyday with words that can make your significant other feel really admired, cherished, respected, appreciated, and loved. But we ladies ought to hear the sweetest and dearest words from you guys and not just simply say it to us. We need it to be real and heartfelt and not just lip-service.
   
    Personally, I had my own share of those spine-tingling moments, too. I’ve heard numerous sweet and the not so sweet things uttered by my former, uhmm, boyfriends. But mind you, I can still count them with my one hand. So “boyfriends” don’t mean more than five. Lol! And those were being said and acted upon in various ways just to make me feel really special. One of the sweetest things I always wanna hear is the simple yet sincerest, “I LOVE YOU.” Nothing really beats that! 

     So to my guy friends, what are the Sweet things to say to your girlfriend? Would you care to share? And to my gals, what are the caring things you should do to make your relationship even sweeter?



5 comments:

Missie said...

I love hearing I love you, and I love when I do get the (albiet rare) compliments! I need to know my hubby loves me and thinks I am pretty even when I know he does!

july_blogista said...

ehem ehem ehemmm..ubo! ubo! ubo! cge ra tag ubO dani dah! tsk tsk tsk!

jeni said...

ahaha ..... lahe ra jud ....

you are very right Joie .... in every sense of your words .... because you are a woman ..... women are wired to be very receptive when it comes to words ...

Karen Chayne said...

haguy! ahem! in love ba ang akong sistah karun? hehehe

GIOVANNI said...

ma claro man nga INLOVE.. paid post ni bah?